How to Buy Lingerie for your Girl!
Every romantic relationship eventually comes to a stage where you want to have a “lingerie conversation” with your partner. Except, you also don’t want to come across as cheap, crude or sexist. I sense your fear! So, before you head to a lingerie store to buy her sexy, see-through lingerie, here are a few things that you DEFINITELY want to consider!
- Let her know you admire and appreciate her, without faking it. Spoil her with cute gifts once in a while. You don’t want to unexpectedly appear with lingerie and make the situation awkward and somewhat disconnected.
- You know what’s most disrespectful? Cheap, poorly made and ill-fitting lingerie. Please do yourself a favor and NEVER pick it for her.
- Begin with encouraging her to appreciate herself. HER comfort should be your foremost priority. So, a good start would be to get her daywear lingerie. It can be a beautiful and comfortable bra with matching undies, or a pretty slip, or perhaps a gift card. This will assure her that it’s about her. This will boost her “lingerie confidence”.
- Now that she’s comfortable and confident about your involvement in this department, it is time for “bedroom lingerie”! How about a lovely silk chemise or a nightgown, with a matching robe? Ensure you get something you both are comfortable with. I’d suggest you to not rush into getting her a lace teddy and stockings.
- Now that you have established some “lingerie trust” and have hopefully figured out the styles you both might be into, go lingerie shopping together. Turn it into a fun date! Maybe, combine it with dinner or drinks (and, thank me later)!
After all, comfort, confidence, trust, and intimacy is what lingerie is all about!